You ever wondered why some people just tend to attract good things to them. That some people no matter their circumstances somehow find a way to get the things they want. Well, it may be their vibration. What do I mean?
Have you ever been around someone who is constantly negative and it brings down your mood? This can be someone who constantly brings up only the bad things that have happened to them to the point when good things happen they can barely recognize it. It can be draining and make you someone who is hard to be around for a long time. This person would be considered to have a low vibration. Don’t get me wrong, there are situations and circumstances that can put any of us in this energy at different points in our lives but it is really how we rise above it. I do not judge or fault people because it can be difficult.
Let’s look at the other side of the spectrum. Some people just seem to have good things happen to them time and time again. Let’s take it a step further & look at those born into poverty. How can a single person born in a tough area become the one anomaly to make it to be successful? These people turn their misfortune into fortune. They adopt such a belief in themselves that they are able to overcome any adversity. That belief in self & positive thinking allows them to develop problem solving abilities that contribute to them accomplishing many of their goals or somehow always be “at the right place at the right time”. They don’t allow setbacks to knock them down to where they just accept their present situation if it’s not making them happy.
This is the difference between those who vibe high vs those who vibe low. Those who vibe low or stay stuck in that energy usually believe that good things don’t and can’t happen to or for them. When other people tell them their dreams they don’t believe it can happen. “My love life will always suck, no one can ever love me, I can never make it in that career” are things someone that is vibing low may say. These things then become true because you believe it and your behaviors will actually align to that vibration to keep those things true.
How can you raise your vibration? There are different ways to raise your vibration but let’s start with self esteem. Self image and self esteem has to be worked on. That can be by working out, eating healthy, meditating, learning new hobbies,socializing more etc… When you feel good about yourself it shows and brings more opportunities to you because people wanna be around you. Also, find people who have those qualities you desire.
“Find your Tribe.”
When you surround yourself with people who feel good and are vibing high you’re bound to feel the same. People who feel good about themselves usually have a way of making those they come in contact with also feel the same.
I understand the difficulty for some in seeing the sunshine especially if they were born or raised the opposite way but at some point we all need to take accountability for our own life. It is hard to face ourselves trust me, I understand. The past cannot be changed but the present and future is yours to create. Why not create something that makes you happy?
There are so many examples of people who were born in poverty stricken areas making it & turning their life around for the better. Why were they different than the people under the same circumstances? They were surrounded by people in the same conditions but their mentality allowed them to continue on into a happy fulfilling life.
Let’s all try to be more positive people & raise our vibrations.
Looking to manifest your dreams this year? Ready to finally go after that dream you wanted? Ready to start that Youtube channel or teach that class or open up that business? Well there’s no time but the present.
People set goals everyday but not everyone ends up following through with making sure they meet these goals. For example, you may ask someone where do they think they will be in 15 years and they will reply “I will be rich and traveling the world”. Now ask that same person how do they plan to get to this point and they are stuck. They do not know how they will do it. Someone who sets goals will be able to tell you what they will do to accomplish this goal whether it’s start their own business, invest a large percentage of their income, avoid unnecessary purchases etc.
I recommend having a long-term goal set that includes multiple short term goals along the way to assist you with accomplishing this goal. Setting multiple goals along the way is beneficial because most people like to see quick results. How many people do you know that start a fitness plan but after two weeks because they only lose 2 lbs they give up. This is most of us because we want instant gratification. This is the culture we live in. To avoid giving up, I suggest setting short-term goals that can be met so you can feel like you are making progress towards the long-term goals you have.
Let’s say your goal is to save $100,000 in 5 years. If you are not a high earning individual who could save this amount in a lesser timeframe, I recommend breaking it down into saving smaller amounts of money in smaller time blocks. This will allow you to reach $100,000 by the end of that 5-year timeframe. This can entail setting aside a certain amount of money from each pay check you get to put into savings or investments over time to equal your goal. If you don’t want to set exact numbers you can also create a chart with a list of steps to take to get you where you need to be. Please see chart below:
This is just an example of how you can draw out a plan. I would recommend making your chart more in depth and creating a vision board. Place this vision board in an area that you will be forced to look at it every morning. If you see it every morning it will help keep you on the right track. What’s the point of setting goals then giving up on them continuously? Remember to take action , have a plan and work towards reaching each target.
“Keep setting short-term goals that will eventually help you meet your long-term goals. “